My Philosophy ~ Patience and Happiness Are Not the Same (Agree or Disagree)

I work at home, and often feel as if I live in the Dark Ages. A typical “happy day” at my house? Wake up. On my laptop from sunup to sundown. In between, break for lunch. While chowing down, I decided to make one more attempt at trying to watch the news online for free. Surfed the Internet for about ten minutes and gave up.

● So what came next?
Next, I decided to play one of my favorite games to amuse myself. What game is that, you ask? Sometimes I type a phrase into the search engine just to see what pops out!

The phrase for the search query was:
“I don’t have the patience to find out what’s happening now!”

The results included a link to a great article.

Patience Is a Virtue, but Don’t Wait to Be Happy by Hannah Eagle

Love it!! The quote or title, I mean. The article was kind of sad, but a real-life incident, and the writer, Hannah Eagle, conveyed her thoughts quite well.

The website is called Tiny Buddha, and the site’s tagline is “Simple wisdom for complex lives.”

As one thing leads to another, my late husband was in the kitchen preparing his midday meal, so I asked him a question:

* “If patience is a virtue, then what is happiness?”

♦ ♦ ♦

My late husband was always my in-house wisdom and enlightenment-free resource.

I was very satisfied with his response.

No, I am not going to write out his answer.

♦ Instead, Mr. or Ms. Reader, the question is for you to ponder.

* Patience is to virtue, as happiness is to ______________.

How would you fill in that blank?

Fun Finds on Amazon:

Enesco Kimmidolls

The Enesco Kimmidoll figurine collection was inspired by the traditional kokeshi dolls from northern Japan, with a philosophy of bestowing good fortune. I chose the Patience doll. But they have Hope, Love, Happiness, Optimism, Success, and more! Purchase the wooden doll figurines or keychains, notebooks, and writing pads, etc.

Enesco Kimmidoll Yuzuki Patience Mini Doll Figurine, 2.25″

Patience; My spirit is resolute and calm. By holding tightly to your dreams with quiet tenacity, you show the strength of my spirit. May the gifts of patience be your reward with all the blessings your dreams afford.

Patience • Strength • Calm #giftideas#Handmade #jewelry #gemstone #bracelet blends amazonite, turquoise, aquamarine, & traditional japa malaelements, finished w/ a symbolic elephant charm. https://t.co/5ofqOiQ6MW
Each stone is chosen for its calming, grounding energy, perfect… pic.twitter.com/EiZMQsavtO

— My Shopping Channel (@goshoppingbees) March 14, 2026

Japanese Tea Gardens in Texas: A Symbol Friendship

Would you like to visit a Japanese Tea Garden? Great!

Somehow, when I Googled “Japanese Garden,” I was not expecting the City of Houston to pop up on the first page of the results. 😊 It led me to Yelp.

• GO TO the Yelp website. In the search box, type in “Japanese Tea Garden” and for location type in “Houston, Texas”. You get a list of the Top 10 Japanese Tea Gardens or Japanese Gardens.

FUN FACT:

"The Japanese teahouse was built in Japan and reassembled by craftsmen here on location in Houston. It is a particular type of construction that uses no nails in holding the building together. Signifying mutual friendship, it was a gift from Japan."

~ SOURCE: Japanese Tea Garden in Houston, Texas 

(Note: Quote was from a HUBPages.com article, which has been unpublished.)

Japanese Garden Wall Art

Japanese gardens originated in Japan during the Asuka and Naraperiods, drawing early influence from Chinese landscape design and Buddhist aesthetics. Over centuries, they developed into distinct forms—such as strolling gardens, tea gardens, and dry rock gardens—each emphasizing harmony, symbolism, and a deep appreciation for natural scenery. These spaces were designed not merely for beauty but for contemplation, ritual, and the expression of cultural ideals.

Houston’s Japanese Garden in Hermann Park reflects this long tradition and the city’s ties with Japan. Although a Japanese garden was proposed in 1930, the idea did not materialize until 1988, when Japanese Consul General Yasuo Hori began discussions with Houston’s mayor and local Japanese organizations. Landscape architect Ken Nakajima was commissioned to design the garden, which opened in 1992. The project symbolized friendship between Japan and Houston and blended traditional Japanese design with Texas-adapted plantings.

REFERENCES:

Hermann Park Conservancy. Japanese Garden – Hermann Park Conservancy. Hermann Park Conservancy, n.d. Hermann Park Conservancy

“Japanese Garden (Houston).” Wikipedia, Wikimedia Foundation, n.d. Wikipedia

The Cultural Landscape Foundation. “Hermann Park Japanese Garden.” TCLF, n.d. TCLF

Japan-America Society of Houston. “Share Your Voice: The Future of the Japanese Garden in Hermann Park.” Japan-America Society of Houston, 24 Feb. 2026. Japan-America Society of Houston

KHOU 11. “Japanese Garden in Hermann Park Celebrates 30th Anniversary.” KHOU.com, 6 May 2022. KHOU.com

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🌿 Most Common Plants & Flowers in Japanese Gardens

Japanese gardens rely on plants that evoke tranquility, seasonality, and natural harmony. Many are chosen for their shape, symbolism, or subtle beauty rather than bright color.

🌸 Key Plants & Flowers

• Japanese Maple (Acer palmatum) — prized for delicate leaves and dramatic fall color. 
• Bamboo (various species, including Buddha Belly Bamboo) — symbolizes strength and flexibility; often used as screens or accents. 
• Japanese Boxwood (Buxus microphylla) — evergreen shrub used for structure and low hedging. 
• Cherry Blossoms (Sakura) — iconic spring bloom representing impermanence and beauty. 
• Mosses — essential for creating a soft, aged, serene atmosphere; used as groundcover.
• Ginkgo Trees — valued for fan‑shaped leaves and golden autumn color. 
• Azaleas & Rhododendrons — provide seasonal color and are often shaped into rounded forms.
• Pines (Matsu) — symbolize longevity; often pruned into sculptural forms. 

These plants work together to create the layered, contemplative feeling that defines Japanese garden design.

REFERENCES:

Bulla, Adriano. “12 Traditional Japanese Plants For Your Backyard Zen Garden.” Gardening Chores, 26 Jan. 2021, https://www.gardeningchores.com/japanese-garden-plants/.

Chandler, Glen. “18 Japanese Garden Plants You’ll Want To Grow Right Now.” Plant America, 27 Jul. 2025, https://plantamerica.com/japanese-garden-plants/.

Janet Loughrey, Garden Writer & Photographer. “20 Japanese Garden Plants: Symbolic Perennials, Trees & Shrubs.” Garden Design Magazine, 17 Jun. 2025, https://www.gardendesign.com/plants/japanese-garden.html.

Haverford, Selina. “26 Japanese Garden Plants.” My Garden Inspo, 28 Jul. 2025, https://mygardeninspo.com/japanese-garden-plants/.